Why does the realtor always say these three words? Location, Location, Location! Because the locations mean something for your investment. We can use that same philosophy when meeting someone that one starts dating.
How about meeting him on the Elevator at the Courthouse with his shoe strings and personal belongings in a plastic bag! Location, Location, Location! One must ask themself, where is this relationship going? Is he looking for place to call home or to be taking care of financially? Yes, we believe in second chances, but one must ask the right questions because relationships are an investment of time, energy, emotions, and your heart. If he spends more time in the courtroom in front of a judge then that is an investment you should really think thoroughly and pray about. The talk should not be between you and your heart because if he is FINE, then you need a mediator to intercede on your behalf.
How about meeting him in the club? How about meeting him online? Let's go one step further, how about meeting him in your apartment complex? Location plays a serious factor in your return on investment should you decide to date the guy from the club, online, or in your apartment community. You must be assured that the time invested will be worth it and have no insecurities or questions that places doubt in your mind that he still dating online, hanging out at the club meeting women, and if he dating anyone else in community. Location, Location, Location! Be careful who you invest your time with and how you give your heart away.